Sugar Daddy: Business Partner Instead of Lover

He is a financially well-off man looking for an attractive young woman. The average age is 42 and in most cases he works in an executive position, as a consultant or as a company owner. The annual salary averages just under $250,000. There is hardly any chance of meeting someone the natural way. He lacks the time or the desire for something that might develop naturally. That's why he looks in a simple way for a simple woman who stands by his side as an attractive companion and doesn't see herself in a stressful everyday relationship. A sugar daddy is willing to pay the woman for this. The average spending for such a woman is just over $40,000. This gives the woman a comfortable lifestyle. That includes, among other things, the cream of the crop such as exclusive events, long-distance trips, designer clothing, a housekeeper and a personal trainer. On special sites or dating portals, wealthy men and young women with weak finances post their profiles. The getting-to-know-you phase takes place via email or chat, and a meeting is arranged. They check whether there is affection, sexual chemistry and shared interests. Possibly it is also clarified whether additional and personal criteria can be agreed on for the dating. The relationship is defined by both participants according to their individual wishes. Just under 25 percent of the men are in committed relationships and are only looking for, say, a second woman. She fulfills the wishes that a wife refuses or doesn't fulfill.

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What Does a Sugar Daddy Expect From His Sugar Baby?

Mainly he looks for a simple partner who waits for him with an appetizing meal after he finishes work or who accompanies him to events. On business trips she also keeps him company through numerous lonely nights. Of course sex is included in these arrangements. Unlike in prostitution, the woman chooses her benefactor of her own free will. First comes getting to know each other, and only with mutual affection is this deal entered into, which can end at any time. As a rule the women are confident and not submissive. They prefer luxury and like being spoiled. In return they provide the sugar daddy with a relaxing and attractive representation of himself. It is questionable whether this stays that way for long if they often turn down his demands. Through mutual compliance, both sides are winners. The prerequisite here is that there is no emotional attachment between the two and that purchasable intimacies take place. To keep the relationship going, the younger partner is expected to provide unspoken favors in return. These can consist of living expenses, goods, financial means or also support for her career.